Posted in grandparents, Life

Christmas has Arrived

This year there is a special addition to our family and it will change the way we view Christmas forevermore! We welcomed our first grandchild 2 1/2 months ago and we are mesmerized by this little human. He is the most precious thing Ever!!! (said 1 million thousand Grandparents before me)

The memories of raising our own children are coming alive in our minds as we watch this little guy grow. Starting in January, I will have the honor of babysitting this little gem 2 days a week and I am excited, but Scared!! What if I do something wrong ……. what if he cries for Mom the whole time …..

Then I stop myself and sigh …… I’ve got this, I mean I did it twice already, right?

I have very fond memories of my own Grandparents growing up and as I reflect, they were definitely key in how I turned out. Even though they are gone from this world now, the bond can never be broken. They taught me important lessons and I hope to do the same. In 50-60 years will my grandkids remember me as the Gramma who encouraged them, had fun with them, loved them unconditionally, inspired them to be the best person they could be ………….

Of course they will …God chose me to be their Gramma and he will be with me every step of the way! I have a job to do! Thank you Dear Lord for the BEST Christmas present Ever!!!

Posted in Avon, Avon Makeup, Avon Skincare, Business building

Your Avon Business and Blogging

Soapy Chic Cafe

What Do You Love To Do?

Me: I Love to garden … I Love to take outstanding photos … I Love to eat healthy, but it’s hard!

So think about this —- these things or activities that I Love make me happy and put me and my mood in a good place. I can talk for hours (literally) about them and never lose my excitement. **They are Who I Am**

So here’s the thing —- I can use these “triggers” or “Loves” to grow my Avon business.

Here’s how —- Start a blog and get excited about sharing your gardening skills and advice, your excellent photo shoot sessions or just a great picture each day. Or how about some Good recipes that you actually make and eat on a regular basis. Be genuine and focus on sharing these things.

Don’t spend time looking at what others are trying…

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Posted in Life, motivation

My Adult Nephew Asked Me …

My nephew sat with me having a beer after a family holiday party – he is in his 30’s and I am mid-50’s – the conversation was fun and light-hearted. We reviewed the happenings of the day and generally caught up with each other’s lives. 

Our family is close knit and we have great respect for the “elders” (of which I may or may not fit into that category … depends on who you ask). Anyways, the younger adults will at times ask questions or start conversations trying to gain some wisdom or start a debate. In the past I would blurt out answers and defend my opinions going on and on.

Sure enough, this evening was no different.

The question came ……… And I had to stop and think. Of course, you have heard this question launched a million times to others and you listen to their answers.  But tonight I could sense my nephew was asking from his heart and looking for MY answer. 

He asked: “Would you change anything if you had to do it all over again?”

After several minutes of serious thought, I looked him in the eye and said, “Yea, I would.

I would have Smiled More!  

He raised his eyebrows a bit, shook his head  and said .. Yea!

 Smile More!
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Confessions of an Empty Nester

It is not easy becoming an Empty Nester.

I think the first realization we make is “That we did it” … ” We actually made it this far”                             That takes a while to set in as we strut around the empty house feeling oh so … like we conquered the world.

Then — it doesn’t take long … maybe a day, maybe a week and we soon realize the house actually IS empty and our kids are gone to live their own lives “without” us!! It starts to set in that they will survive without mom and dad and they are happier little grown-ups without our constant attention.

Ok … so now what?

So what are we suppose to do? We have to actually refocus our mind to think about other things besides our kids and their lives ………. That is NOT an easy task!! It can break the strongest of strong parents – but it does build character. 

We did it … be proud … let them go

That “so now what” question is so hard … it kind of hurts. Is our life really done, where’s the meaning? But you do continue on your merry way (one must) and the “letting go” part will always be there. I mean they will always be there, they are not leaving …….. just living a happier life without you!

If you have given your children a strong foundation all their lives and have been good role models instilling in them the goodness that you want them to experience in life, then it is a given, you have to endure the Empty Nest Syndrome.

But here’s the kicker

They will marry and have children and come to you ……. for advice maybe, or support or just love. And it will start all over again …….. you do have a purpose.

You are a Grandparent

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Morning Motivation

Are you a Morning person?

I most definitely am! I wake at 4 am each day (a wake-up time that started when we had 4-5 dogs). They were up and ready to go, so I adjusted! ((That is really crazy … who has that many dogs?!?!?)) We did and I loved each and every one of them along with the chickens and Samuel Davis our one and only cat. These days we have one pet … Augie 

Routine is a part of daily life … waking at a certain time, exercising, eating, checking the internet … it all becomes a part of each day. Starting the day off right is crucial to achieving the goals you have set out for yourself. Once all those to do items are checked off the list, you can move ahead and learn, discover and encourage others in their daily life.

I love thinking when I am up at 4 or 5 am in the morning … “most of the world is still asleep” and look what I have accomplished. It really is a good feeling!! The pep talks you give yourself are the most important talks you will need in life. Make sure each morning you tell yourself –

You are the Best … Happy, Healthy and Successful with your Life. These affirmations are solid groundwork for your success in whatever you decide to do.

Mindset … it all boils down to this. Wherever you set your mind to be – is where your life will go.